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Sunday, February 10, 2013
So many times in life people wonder why someone acts or does something to them that makes no sense. Why someone suddenly starts to mistreat you or ignore you. Why a person is only around when there is no one else for them to call. Or when they need their ego stroked. Many wonder why someone in their life chooses to mistreat them even though they may do what they can with the limited resources they have to be all they can be for that person. Now when this happens, you sit and wonder wtf is going on. Why must we always hurt this way. What did I do to deserve someone acting like this. Many times a person will actually be so upset that they can not imagine a good reason to be happy at that moment. They question what to do next. Then that little voice inside them whispers...LET THEM GO!!. now if they listen to the voice is a entirely different story. But lets just cover when its time to let a friend or person in your life go for good.
The answer to that is really easy actually. You should have at least heard if not also been taught the statement treat others how you want to be treated. which simply...if you are putting in 100 percent to the relationship no matter what type it is. then the other person needs to as well. they need to call you just like you call them. they need to text you like you text them. they need to talk to you not ignore you. cause they would not like it if you ignored them. but above all..you should be their equal. one giant red flag is when someone gets so big for their britches that they become so cocky and start treating their elders, their friends, hell anyone they know that does not kiss their ass. like they are beneath them. Well if you see that red flag, its time to stop drop and roll. stop being there friend. drop them like the piece of crap they are treating you like. and roll up and put away the welcome mat so that they know they are no longer welcome in your life. plain and simple. love yourself enough to want to be happy in every aspect of your life. if you miss old friends. attempt to contact them. if they are receptive to you reconnecting then great. if not..then know that at this time it is not in the cards. lets see..also if you have exes that are still in your life. and you have no children with them. ask yourself why are they in your life. now in some cases you were great friends before hand..so why not remain friends if the split was nice. but if you broke up because someone was a cheater, or psycho, or a abuser, or hell they stole money from you and your child, or had a bad tendency of assault and battery. then ask yourself why they are your friend. get as far away from that negative type stuff as you can. you can not master your future if you are a prisoner to your past. and if you have someone in your present that is from a negative part of your past..then you need to remove it like a cancer. cause it will sit there reminding you of what you went through. and every time something crappy happens. ta dah there they are again. Well lets see all the before mentioned examples can be applied to family as well. Now that brings me to the top..Current friends. honestly. If your gut says something is not right. IF your GUT says THEY ARE LYING IF your GUT says They are being as fake as a spam mail claiming you won a billion dollars. hell IF your GUT says They are JUST USERS AND A CHAMELEON THAT USES AND LIES A LOT then it is time to listen to your gut.
STOP TRYING TO SEE THAT OUNCE OF GOOD IN THAT PERSON. REALIZE THAT YES EVERYONE MAY HAVE GOOD. BUT IT DOES NOT MEAN THEY ALL WILL EVER FIND IT. and it sure as hell is not your job to suffer at the hands of them. LOVE YOURSELF ENOUGH TO REMEMBER THAT YOU DESERVE RESPECT, LOVE, AND HONESTY
well that is about it..love you, enjoy yourself, and remember when your gut says something is wrong. listen to it. cause its trying to tell you something that your eyes may not be able to see.
Wednesday, January 30, 2013
SOMETIMES YOU JUST GOTTA REFUSE TO PLAY OTHERS CHILDISH GAMES AND INSTEAD BE A ADULT AND WALK AWAY WITH YOUR HEAD HELD HIGH
As I have grown older I have found that with years knowledge comes. I have found that some people no matter the age recess into teenage antics while others grow up and become determined to be mature positive effects on society. With this I notice that there are a few things in life that can distract even the most mature individual and give them a moment of immaturity. Their kids, their family, their love life, and even their friends. Some would rather not face things in life like adults. Because drama is easier and more tempting to join in on or start. Some will lead you to believe that they are strong because they fight back at what someone says. Even if it means they are just adding more negativity to today's society. They may even lead you to believe that they are the victim of hostile constant haters or injustice. When in fact they are more likely to have not realized that they are causing some of the issues in their life. By fighting back at negativity with negativity.
Sadly so many do not realize that as much effort that they put into talking about others. Joining in on drama, or talking about people behind their backs, or lying to someone (IE spreading negativity). they actually could have used that same effort and energy to just have the strength to be a grown up and walk away from the non sense and say I will not partake in any childish activities that cause pain to others and that will not be a positive effect on my life. Sadly some may not ever realize that this is just as easy to do as starting or joining in on drama. Why do I say that you ask. Its simple. Cause it takes strength and courage to be a adult. It takes nothing to be a blemish on society. Someones childish actions or hurtful ways can destroy someone else. An in return cause them to reap karma that they would not want. But Just doing something as simple as being positive and standing up and saying..I am a adult I will not be negative. I will be positive in my life and not hurt others. I am gonna take the high road. Then you in essence are welcoming positive things into your life.
Remember Sometimes you just gotta stop fighting childish games people play and instead be adult enough to walk away with your head held high.
Wednesday, January 23, 2013
In life there are things that make you feel weak and broken. You feel as if it is you against the world. You will find that at times your positive life struggles to remain happy and negative free. Sometimes things as simple as a cold, a virus, or family stress can break you and bring the strongest person to their knees. But I say this, no matter what you go through in life, you must remember that positive energy resides with-in you. You must never stop believing in it. Do not forget that you are in charge of it. Dig deep and search for even a strand of hope and positive energy and let it ripple with in you. until you can feel it grow larger and larger. And once you realize that all you gotta do is believe. Then anything is possible. May the goddess walk with you. May she help you find the love with in yourself and enjoy life as positive as it can be for you. blessed be.
Sunday, January 6, 2013
There is this moment in your life when sleep deprived and overwhelmed meet. When being super woman and everything for everyone crashes together. Where attempting to be a great spouse and holding everyone else together all comes to a big smashing thump in the middle. When your strong body finally says "wait does no one understand what is happening inside me!". When you as a human being finally get tired of arguing and fighting. The mood swings. The solitude. The being everything for everyone but then coming home and being exiled to a single room in a home you pay everything in. But being blamed cause your health prevents others from contributing. There comes a time when you grow so tired of hearing the clicks of keys on a keyboard, the yapping of everyone else. The gross sounds seeping through your walls and ceiling. The disgusting acts being done so loud and you pound and pound screaming that they please keep it down so you can sleep. but they just get louder. There comes a time when your world seems to suffocate you. and honestly you wonder if it is all worth it. There comes a time when the struggle to stay positive becomes hard to bare and you wonder if you have the strength to do it. when you feel like you are just so alone. When you finally decide that you can not hold up everything on your own all the time. You struggle to walk, struggle to stand. But finally all you can do. is.......CRUMBLE. You may feel that you are letting the world down by crumbling. But honestly even the strongest phoenix can only carry the heaviest load for so long. before it burst into flames. falls to ashes and once again is reborn. So its not about the fact that the crumble. It is about the fact that you once again rise from the ashes after you catch your breath and take time for you. I rise..I rise.. I rise..I rise from the ashes like the phoenix I am. And once more I will fly. I will rise from the struggles and heavy loads I chose to carry that weigh me down. I rise from the collapsed body that has fallen to the ground. And from the ashes of my former self I rise once more. I rise because I know I can. I rise because it is not failure to crumble it is part of being a phoenix. It is part of who I am. Even the most positive and strongest person needs to crumble and rise from time to time. So I RISE. Once I rise I may be shaky at first, but I will find my footing once more and my flight will become stronger each day. And with that I will fly strong and proud in the Goddess light.
Merry Meet, Merry Part. Merry Meet again. blessed be and remember just that you tried means that you already are winning. blessed be.
Tuesday, January 1, 2013
This one is simple and sweet. Happy new year to all. may your year be as you wish it to you. may you get out of it what you put into it. may you accept the positive things that are given to you. may you be inspired to do something that you always wanted to do. and may you be true to who you are. no matter if it is not the normal for those around you. enjoy this new year. celebrate life and above all just live life.
may the goddess bless you. and walk with you. happy new year from Dixiewitch and Dixiewitch Creations.
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