Sunday, August 17, 2014

Never stop believing in yourself even when others do!



One of the hardest things in life to do sometimes is to believe in yourself. A lot of times, there is so much stuff that happens in your life that you will find it hard to find the top from the bottom of anything. Let alone believe in one's self. In many cases people that we have extended at at times over extended ourselves to. May be the people that let us down and stop believing in us the fastest. Which in return may cause a void or feeling of loss within us that can not be explained. Now when this happens, most will retreat into their shell or dark corner and wallow in disbelief that something so painful is happening to them. All the while they are not aware that by doing that they actually are causing themselves more pain and suffering.
Now in no way am I a expert on this subject. I can only speak from what I have done in my own life and also what therapist have helped me work through. So the one thing I have learned is that a person must not give up on themselves even when they feel like all their friends have turned their back on them. Or they feel like the people they had in their lives that once believed in them, are no longer there believing. Instead you must believe in yourself. You must know that, another person does not in any way define you as a human being. A friend, associate, acquaintance , or friend that you have not met in person yet, does not in any way define you on the inside. You must never assume that your life was tossed aside for some hateful reason in their eyes. You are not them, you do not know the struggles they go through in their lives. Maybe they feel like certain people stop being their for them too. Maybe they have grief, sorrow, stresses, that they are dealing with. All and all if you do feel that you are you only cheerleader, don't take that as a bad thing. Because of one simple reason. You can be your biggest fan, or your worst enemy. And if you put your heart and soul into it, being the biggest fan for yourself, will bring you so much greatness you will never believe that you ever had given up on yourself ever.
KNOW that you matter, ACCEPT that you are loved by yourself. and BELIEVE in yourself. For if you do that, then you are welcoming positive energy into your life and good things will come.

blessed be and Goddess bless you.

*thank you to those that made me feel alone or as if you don't want to be my friend anymore. because all you did was give me the strength to believe in myself without relying on anyone else.*

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